
The word Havdalah actually means separation, coming from
the Hebrew verb, L'Havdil, meaning to separate or distinguish. Most
commonly, Havdalah refers to that ceremony which separates the Sabbath from the
other days of the week. At the conclusion of the Sabbath, when three
stars appear in the sky, Havdalah may be recited. It is a short and
colorful ceremony in which several objects are used. The first is the braided
Havdalah candle. The second is the spice box which holds spices with
fragrant smells for all to inhale. Finally, there is a Kiddush cup which
holds the wine that is consumed at the conclusion of the Havdalah service.
It is customary that the children are
invited to participate in the ceremony. In the synagogue, children will
approach the Bima (pulpit) and will hold the candle in a special holder.
The ceremony also is recited to mark the end of holidays as well as
Shabbat (the Sabbath).
